I’m not going to ramble in this post like I’m prone to doing – I’m going to get right to the point and give you the answer I know you’re desperate for.
Why can’t you create what you want?
Because part of you doesn’t want it.
Yep, it’s actually that simple.
Did I trigger you?
Do you not like that answer?
Do you disagree?
Let me explain….
The personality that you present to the world is a façade. That doesn’t mean that you’re a bad person or a liar or shallow. This façade or mask that you wear is a very real and valid part of who you are. But it’s just that – a PART. Underneath of that lives potentially hundreds of other parts of you, all equally as real and valid. The individual part that we chose to show the world is the one that we think will get us what we want in that particular moment. Are you feeling afraid of conflict? Then your mask is probably very sweet and accommodating. Are you determined to not look weak? Then your mask is probably very authoritative and imposing. You get the idea. Within each of us lives a village sized collection of parts, all with different wants, needs, desires, motivations, likes, dislikes, and memories. The reason for this collection of parts is largely due to a phenomenon known as fragmentation (a term coined by Teal Swan), which is the result of trauma, but that’s for another post. The point is, most people are completely unaware of this village within them, because when these parts are not acting as your conscious “mask”, they reside in your subconscious mind, which is the land of “what you don’t know that you don’t know”, as Teal Swan puts it. So, when the average person consciously thinks that they want something, that is the desire of just one part of them (maybe even the desire of several parts). They have no clue that within them resides a part (or several) that absolutely does NOT want that thing. So, what is the takeaway?
Unless ALL of you is on board with your desire, that means part of you (or several) has its heels firmly dug into the ground, and you will be forever going in circles. I don’t care if you consciously want to lose weight. If you’re struggling to lose weight or keep it off, part of you does not want to lose weight. If you want to build your business but find that it’s just not happening for you, part of you does not want to build your business. If you want to reclaim your self-worth and step into an empowered life but just can’t stop being a “people pleaser”, part of you believes that lacking self-worth or a strong sense of self is in your best interests.
It was not until I arrived at the point in my self-awareness/spiritual journey when I became aware of “parts work” and then combined it with my ability to channel, that my life started to turn around in massive ways, and FAST. I finally found the energy to manifest what I truly wanted, and therefore fell into energetic alignment with it. This is why I am passionate about what I do. Dealing directly with your different aspects is the most effective way I have ever seen to create the life that you want.
If you are ready to get to know and to work with the truth of who you are, heal long forgotten wounds, make life about 10,000 times easier for yourself, and finally step into the life of freedom that you know in your heart is possible, then simply make the decision, and reach out to me today.